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Home » Caregiver » Health » Are You a Healthy Caregiver?

Are You a Healthy Caregiver?

Cartoon smiley face eating an unhealthy burger.Probably not

OK, maybe you are a healthy caregiver but chances are you are not as healthy as when you were thrust into this role. If you have been caregiving for any length of time, you have probably already started compromising your health and you don’t even realize it.

If caregiving has caused you to eat fast food, drink alcohol more, skip workouts, cancel social engagements, or lose personal time, then the decline has started.

Caregiving heals and kills

Fortunately, there’s a new awareness in promoting caregiver health and wellness. Some stories say caregiving makes people happier while other stories say caregiving kills (literally). Be assured that if you are an Alzheimer’s caregiver you are generally not in the happier group.

The happier group consists of short-term caregivers; i.e. their loved one broke a hip and in six months things were back to normal. They basically were able to get in and get out without too much emotional or physical damage. They walk away feeling good about themselves because they helped someone through a tough time.


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Alzheimer’s caregivers aren’t healthy caregivers

wimpyIn 2013, the average duration for caring for someone with Alzheimer’s was four years. Don’t be fooled though, many caregivers are in it for much longer. As a matter of fact, I know someone that has been caring for her husband for 17 years.

When you see him in passing, you would never know he has Alzheimer’s. Heck, she may have another 10 years ahead of her.

Sleepy faceBeing a caregiver of someone with any form of dementia for any amount of time is a very demanding situation that can cause a significant amount of stress. If this stress isn’t channeled properly, the health of the caregiver suffers.

I can’t imagine a situation that could possibly be more emotionally draining than watching your loved one slip away as a result of Alzheimer’s.


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The statistics are unbelievable

ohThere’s no doubt that this amount of stress if not handled properly can be deadly. I’ve seen different articles saying that between 30 and 60 percent of those caring for someone with Alzheimer’s die before the patient. Ouch.

I don’t even like quoting those stats because they are so extreme. To be honest, I wasn’t able to find the official reports. I also didn’t spend too much time looking, because statistics don’t matter.

What matters is that you find ways to protect yourself from potential caregiver health problems. You won’t be immune to caregiver burnout so if you do nothing, your health will suffer.

You can, however, take steps to protect your health, and the most important piece of this plan is establishing a support system.

Create a caregiver support system

supportHaving the support of others will help you maintain balance in you life. You will still be able to visit with friends, exercise, or simply have some down time when needed. This is the best way to minimize the health risks associated with caregiving.

I know it will be hard but you must ask for help sooner than later – don’t get overloaded and then ask. Be proactive and plan.

Find people (family, friends, acquaintances at church, paid caregivers, etc) to help. Identify tasks and times when they can help. Set up a routine where they stop by your house to assist you. Help them build rapport with your loved one (BTW, your loved one will love seeing people other than you ).

Also, very importantly, you need to be able to trust these people when left alone with your loved one. This trust is vital because respite is not just about getting away physically, but more importantly being able to put your mind at ease when you are away.

I’ve met my share of caregivers that were constantly checking their phone for messages while they were away from their loved one on a so called break. Because they didnt’ trust the substitute caregiver, their mind wasn’t at ease, and the added stress was probably causing them more harm than good.

No workman’s comp for this job

This is a long-term job that will last for years. You have been thrust into it without any training. It’s too easy to let your own health and well-being suffer. workoutYou must maintain your social life, eat healthy, exercise, and do activities that make you happy.

Otherwise, your health will suffer. Without your health, you won’t be able to take care of your loved one. If you won’t do if for yourself, do it for them. Remember, we are Together in This.


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Questions, comments, or perhaps other ideas? In the comments below, I would love to hear from you.

About Mike Good

Hi, I founded Together in This to help family members caring for someone with Alzheimer’s. Through informative training and easy-to-use tools, I aim to help you take control and have peace-of-mind knowing you are doing the right things.

Comments

  1. Tom says

    January 7, 2016 at 8:03 am

    All great ideas, Mike. I would also add that sometimes taking care of one’s mental health means reaching out for professional help. Being a caretaker is more than just taking care of your loved one; lots of other things are impacted as well – work, family dyanamics, marriage, finances, etc. Managing all these things can be extremely stressful and lead to anxiety and depression. Talking things out with a counselor can be extremely helpful – be it from a mental health professional, clergy or other spiritual counselor. Also, mention your anxiety/depression with your doctor …. there are medicines out there that can help with your brain chemistry.

    Reply
    • Mike Good says

      January 7, 2016 at 9:41 am

      That’s absolutely true Tom, and a very good point. This is a situation where a person should seek the best help they can but often don’t. People specially trained in specific areas definitely provide value that will result in reduces stress – resulting in better health 🙂

      Reply
  2. Bonnie says

    February 24, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    A key component of taking care of myself has been regular meditation. This has gone a long way in reducing my stress levels.

    Reply
    • Mike Good says

      February 25, 2016 at 8:22 am

      That’s great to hear. I’ve been hearing a lot about the positive benefits of meditation. And as we learned in the recent TinT Empowerment workshop on stress, managing stress is very important in protecting our health. Thank you for sharing.

      Reply
  3. Jerry Blackerby says

    June 12, 2016 at 1:07 am

    I discovered riding recumbent bicycles and trikes for about 1 1/2 -2 hours a day goes a long way in reducing my stress .

    Check out my youtube website for all the video i have made of riding !

    Reply
    • Mike Good says

      June 14, 2016 at 11:27 am

      That’s great Jerry. I love the video. Thanks for sharing and WPS, go Hogs! 🙂

      Reply

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